What To Do When Your Kids Don’t Like Your Will

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In an ideal world elderly parents and their adult children always get along, and when those parents pass away their children quietly and respectfully follow their wishes regarding the distribution of their estate. Unfortunately, we don’t always live in an ideal world, and inheritance and estate planning can often cause tension between parents and children before the parents have even reached retirement age!

What are your options when you know your kids won’t like what you’ve put in your will or trust?Many people choose to simply keep their wishes secreted away in a safety deposit box until they’ve passed away and then let everyone fight it out on their own; but this only puts off the bad feelings and can often cause lasting rifts among siblings. This strategy of secrecy also doesn’t address what happens if you become incapacitated and need one of your trustees or agents (in all likelihood one of your children) to take over your affairs.

A better option than secrecy is to invite your children to your final meeting with your estate planning attorney.This gives you an opportunity to share your plans in the presence of a knowledgeable professional who is on your side; it also gives your kids the chance to ask questions and get clear and immediate answers.More often than not tension about mom and dad’s estate plan stems from a lack of understanding, or a worry that mom or dad have been taken advantage of.Having a family meeting with your attorney can be reassuring, educational, and put everyone one the same page moving into the future.

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